wow-- your reaction is quite something. I don't see anyone arguing.... it never ceases to amaze me how some of us can see "being wrong" from those that say things we don't agree with. I'm learning that just because somone has an opposite view doesn't mean my view is "wrong"......

you are not wrong pachyderm.... perhaps different from some of the posters-- but that doesn't equal-- wrong.

I think this is known as a cognitive distortion... if I may be so bold hope you're not offended... truly just trying to help a struggling fellow member here.

fins