Thank you all for your replies. I am still feeling vulnerable. We have continued to talk and he has let me know how he used to feel. We live about an 1 hour apart. We both have busy schedules and would like to get together. May not happen for another month. Our schedules don't allow much currently. In a way I wld like to see him now but I'm thinking after chatting a month may be in our best interest. I don't know. My heart is still aching and I am not sure anymore how much to let out. Really we are just 2 old friends getting reaquainted. Nothing more nothing less. I don't see why I'm so nervous.