hey Stieg.....online dating is good, just keep in your mind that it's a long process and you got to be cool about rejection.....

You can also try other sites like sign up for meetup.com and you can meet local people in your area with same interests.....

You are not a loner, you feel lonely and the good news is that there is a way to be not lonely and that's being with people....just go out and be good to yourself and others.....

by the way, Belle was my best encouragement to start online dating....I hope I plant that seed of hope in your heart then

take care
Marjan