Sweetie you do deserve them....Do you have a T to help you maybe erase some of those tapes mom put in your head? You are very bright and have had a hard go of it....What would you tell me if I had posted your posts? I know you know you do deserve this somewhere deeeeeeeeeep deeeeeeeeeep down...why do I know this? BECAUSE YOU HAVE ASKED and didn't just accept that crap as fact

HUGS