thank you everyone. I use to think it was best to know before someone passes but I am so over that now. I know people have things they need to say to loved ones but honestly there isn't more I could say to Dad that I haven't said all my life. He knows how much I love him and admire him and how very proud I am to be his daughter. All I can do now is wait and continue to love him. It just stinks to have to sit by and do nothing. I hate cancer!