That cetainly is a sad situation with a lot of different dynamics trying to push their way to the top.

I think your dad is a little jealous of your ongoing relationship with your mum. And I think your mum does what she can but is afraid of it being missed (which it most certailny isn't), so she brings it up a lot.

You are you! You may have some genetic traits which asimilie to both of your parents but you are still you. You are unique in that regard and your parents are trying to punish you for having traits that each of them have..so who is it who doesn't like whom? It's not you, it is the other parent that they are taking a slice at.

You'll find a lot of support here mrsbuttercup, and I really hope your children realise what a great mum they've got...

Rhiannon