Hello spartanchic,

If you have proof he was fooling around with her in 2007 why haven't you told him that you know he flew her out to NJ and all of the emails etc? Theres something wrong here that deoesn't add up.

You have this information and you know he was seeing her and that he flew her into be with him and his parents but you've said nothing. If I found this out I'd be gone there would be no second chances because a cheater is a cheater.

You can't think that this guy is serious? He's been dating you for 6 years but he's been seeing Sally since before then and continuing to see her after then.

Go with him to the reunion and find out from his mother about Sally, if she's nosy she'll be only too happy to tell you about her and if she is still on the scene.

I wish you luck with this, you're more fogiving than I would be

Rhiannon