Hi there,

Thanks for the reply. To answer your question, I've confronted my boyfriend on everything I've discovered during the time we've been together that has pointed to the fact he had been cheating on me with Sally. A big part of the problem is that he is and has been my only boyfriend. I had a strict childhood so I had no prior dating experience before him. Everything I've experienced with him I've gone through blindly, and really hadn't been able to find that self respect for myself when he's done things as mentioned above in case you're wondering why I've stuck around. I've tried to forgive him and move on, but now that this situation has come up, I can't help but think the same thing you are: once a cheater, always a cheater? My friends think going to the reunion would be a good idea so I can talk to his Mom privately and ask questions about Sally... find out if they are still seeing each other, if she still has feelings for him or vice versa, plans to get back together, etc. His Mother and I have never sat down to have a conversation like this as everytime I see her which is once a year, it's just surface talk. I would imagine her conversations with Sally are much more involved than that. So I don't know. I still haven't decided what's best to do. The thought crossed my mind to call Sally myself and ask her what's going on. I don't know.