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Billi, when you posted:
I woulda posted this in Pain, but last time I did, no one responded.
I am afaid everyone here (except maybe this forum) hates me cause I"m bpd.
So I am no longer going to post anywhere else but the sleep and dream issues forum.
anyway, I hope I won't have to bother the dentist with pain. Gum is still swollen and I always look forward to anyone finding out how needy and insecure I am and making it very clear what a pain I am!
Want to thank you all for your support in previous post, "agitated".
You were really invalidating yourself, but what you really need to do here is turn your mind toward non-avoidance. When you feel like you’re “afraid that everyone here (except maybe this forum) hates me cause you’re bpd. So you aren’t going to post anywhere else but the sleep and dream issues forum anymore,” that is an irrational judgment. You are unconsciously avoiding the feeling of “rejection,” but maybe on the grey-scale, someone didn’t know how to reply or didn’t have time, etc. Maybe they didn’t know if it fit into the category. Possibly try posting anything for “pain” in the link “NeuroTalk” which is a link in PsychCentral. It always works with me J. I hope that this helps a little bit and doesn’t get you aggitaed.
I hope that this helped you,
~ dance59326
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