Billi,rant and vent as much as you need to, I empathize with your struggle,as I'm sure many on this forum do! I know how important it is to identify with another person, I myself mostly need it for validation,as my "issues" have been completely dismissed by people who were supposed to care! We are here to support you,we all need a support system in place. I'm sure dance wasn't being nasty,maybe just misplaced advice? IDK Please keep posting, I always look forward to your threads