Hi CJ..& Happy Birthday.

Sounds like these kids are not getting quality parenting. If they were my problem..I would say that when they go to parenting school..they can then bring the children over...until then...you can talk to them on the phone.Your home is not a military zone.

You r going to either make a tough and steadfast decision here....or...as I see it...submit yourself to more suffering. And I do mean suffering.

I could tell ya' stories that would make yer hair stand up.

TC