Dear ((((Belle))))
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Why do I have this insecurity that he will cheat on me tho... I believe that he is genuine and everything he says rings true.. right down to him talking about the future (wants to take me to his best friends dad's birthday in France in July next year..LOL)
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This is your fight or flight resoponse which is urging you to take control and run first so that you don't get hurt. He will over time prove to you that he is worthy of you and worthy of you being able to accept him into your mind. Your heart as already accepted him, that is why you feel so high when you think of him; then your mind chimes in and says "ah yes but..." and so the cycle of insecurity begins again.
Each time a negative thought arises to do with him cheating, close your eyes and see him the way he last looked at you; with all that adoration on his face and you will see very clearly what your mind cannot see. And each time that you do this you will be teaching your mind to relax a little and become more accepting of the relationship.
Your mind (the ego) is saying "but I'm only trying to help" so tell it, "well thank you for caring about me but I'm OK. You can take care of the other mundane things like cooking, driving and everything else I need a mind for"
Loving ((((hugs))))
Rhiannon