I was going to say that I understand your point of view (I am very busy. I read a lot, go out with friends but that doesn't change a thing). Now I think you are right about the commitment issue. He doesn't know what he wants. I am his type and he seems very interested, so that's not the problem, but that doesn't change anything. Next time he comes back, I will send him to hell.

By the way I am not in th US. We don't have silly stalker laws. You seem to be very keen to put labels on behaviors! Stalker ? Get real. Sorry but your post sounds threatening to me. I don't think it is the right place if there is any.