**Now, I realize that there are a few of you reading this that are L Y "-" O over this(which I find offensive yet you still use it), as you are generally NOT supportive, but skim by with the skin on your teeth. That's ok. You would be eaten alive by the general populus out there, which is why you are still here: you have no other place to go either. My post is not for you... as you are the minority here.**

Sky, i don't know what caused you to say what you said in the above paragraph, but i found it very troublesome. i didn't comment when it was posted but i see it as being pretty critical of posters that you might not even know here. i just don't understand telling people that they are skimming by and would be eaten alive out there...and then this, "you have no other place to go"....i felt then that this was hurtful and i still feel that way.

we ALL come here from different places and i feel that we need to continue to work on understanding that. at times i have to step back, as i did from your post, and think about it awhile before i answer.