T and I talk about everything from my past abuses to current family issues. If I don't know what to talk about I just tell her to start asking me questions. Depending on what tspace I am in, it might be a really hard question to answer or one that might make me think deeply (which is VERY hard for me).
Otherwise, we play games....it takes my focus off of trying so hard to talk. It lets things flow.
I just taught her how to play the card game Speed! lol