Our children are grown. All of them know now. Yes, I am grieving and at one point I even though it might be good to have a mock funeral so that I could manage to get on with the grieving process. Since then I have decided that the desire to crossdress has been a part of him since childhood perhaps and he has just started to be able to express these feelings. We are communicating and trying to find common ground.

Thanks for your well wishes.