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Originally Posted by sanityseeker
sounds like you should go fly. Mostly what I think is you shouldn't lie or make untrue excuses. Trust your instincts and quit overthinking everything and making yourself crazy.
Its a second date with a great guy. He may be Mr Right but for now he is just a guy you really like, have a lot in common with and who wants to take you up up up into the sky. Trust your instincts and wait till you talk to him before you try to script the conversation.
I get all of your excitement and how much he is on your mind so do try to enjoy the experience as it happens. Think about how you feel and remember the first date but don't try to predict or orchestrate the future. Just let it unfold as it should. Don't miss a moment of it trying to figure out the next step.
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Thanks Sanity....well, the truth is that I don't know him very well...It was just one date....but I've been living alone for so many years that I can tell from people's eyes how they think inside....I found him a guy who is into studying and his work....you had to see his eyes when he was talking about his job....he was getting so excited....and he showed me some photos....then I googled him and I found his friend's website and his friend wrote a little bit about him too....it was unprofessional website though....then I found his Linkdln and some other stuff about him....thanks to google....
this is very new for me to be excited for a second date through online dating....I have been on and off on the online dating sites for so many years.....I even started in Toronto when internet was not that popular and online dating was a telephone dating....you were posting your profile on the phone line and then you could listen to the others' profiles on the phone....interesting...ha....but I've never ever found anybody to get connected with....absolutely nobody....I've been on eharmony and other sites too....but again, no excitements.....I always wanted to leave the date soon.....and I was bringing excuse to leave....but with him was different....we even forgot about eating....
Again....I know I don't have to over think it too much...and thank god, I don't....I don't have that obsessions like before.....and I feel so comfortable talking about myself....I hate that obsession....also, I think if it's good it will happen and if not it's better to end soon.....no need to get hurt....
He just emailed me....he said again that he's looking forward to this weekend....
I feel like I found a friend finally....I hope....please wish me luck....and don't worry about me flying....I have wings
love you and thanks for being such a caring person.....I need that....I can't tell all these to my friends and family....they had enough of my dating stories...kinda embarrassing....
I'll keep you guys posted....
Marjan