Hello uoffl,

This is a difficult situation, I wouldn't like to be in it. I do think that if he goes to school A his grades will suffer because he is unhappy with his envrironment.

You can only go to school A to do any degree that suports your major?

I honestly don't think it's fair to drop out just to be with him. I don't mean to be cynical here, but 50% of relationships fail (with a lot of resentment), in this case you could resent him or he could resent you...50/50...

And I don't think he should lower his expectations in his study outcome because of your hopes. I hope that sounds right...not intended to be hurtful or upsetting.

How long is the course of study for each of you?

Put it this way if you had the option of 2 cars, and no problem with money at all lets say the registration was free and you got free insurance and gas for 1 year....one was a mustang convertable and the other a ford Corolla which would you choose?

And if once you chose it your mum came along and said "no I like the other one, please take the other one"

How would you feel? would you be even a little disappointed?

I really wish you luck with this one...I wouldn't drop out and he shouldn't expect you to,

Rhiannon