"...what have we learned from Wuthering Heights? 1. You shouldn't marry only for money; 2. You shouldn't marry only for passion; 3. You shouldn't depend only [sic] your significant other for self-definition; 4. You need to get away from the moors, out of the rain, and into a warm circle of good friends who will laugh you out of your depression before you start yelling somebody's name in the middle of the night."

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...romance-expert