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Originally Posted by Tishie
Please talk to your wife see how she feels.
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Okay. I will.
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Originally Posted by lynn P.
Anyone who would tell a man to leave his wife and kids when they're happy, is an idiot. She's probably prejudiced, due to the bad image the media portrays or doesn't understand you or your family at all.
I think this woman triggered the self doubt that your father created in you. Can you hear how this woman reminds you of your father? To hell with her opinion - let her worry about her own family. She doesn't know what's she talking about  |
Ironically, she was cheating on her husband with a psychopath: a relationship she was trying to defend. She had asked what I felt toward my wife in order to compare his feelings toward her and, when I explained it to her, she protested my relationship with my wife, but continued to defend her relationship with her psychopath. She was, needless to say, infuriating.
She does remind me of my father. Well, she praised me copiously for my intelligence, something my father never did. And my father wished for me to leave my family because he wanted me to suffer. She, on the other hand, wanted to spare those close to me. The intentions were different, but the result was similar. And it wasn't just my father, but every authority figure that predicted my life to be nothing but turmoil. It doesn't so much make me feel inadequate. It fuels and justifies my hatred.
It wasn't just her, though. Many people have said that. She was just the most recent. Well, one of the most recent. And most infuriating...