Wow, Rhiannon. I'm so sorry to hear about your experiance with that "man" you were married to. As you pointed out, your situation was so much clearer than mine. All I have to go on is one episode, statistics and a hunch that may or may not be accurate. I will definatly try to find some way of testing him. That's as productive I can be at this point. I would love to take the road of "he wouldn't do that to me", but I can't ignore that knawing. Thanks for writing. By the way, don't let your ex's nasty and bad behavior define you. You are much greater than he'll ever know.