Wow, Rhiannon. I'm so sorry to hear that you suffered through so much with that ex of yours. As you pointed out, you had more obvious clues to what was going on with him. I have only that one episode, statistics and this persistant uneasiness. I would love to take the road "he wouldn't do that to me" but it's hard for me to ignore my guts without first investigating it. Thanks so much for the advice. I'd rather know myself cause if he is stepping out on me, he can keep stepping straight outta my life! Oh, don't let your ex's bad behavior define you. Pick up that iron (if it made you happy before) and reclaim yourself.