Hi Sara, if it's any help, every decision I have ever made from fear has turned out badly. Slow down, give yourself some space to just be yourself and live your own life. A boyfriend who isn't over his ex after eight months with you is not good for you. Neither is a man you don't love... why are you worried he might be the one if you don't love him, or did I read that right? You don't have to choose either of these guys, or any guy, for that matter. You are enough in yourself. Ironically, you are more likely to meet a Mr. Right when you don't really need one. because as long as you think you need one, you aren't really ready. Love yourself; that's the beginning. Love yourself even when you don't like yourself; be especially kind to yourself when you're tired, freaked out, bratty, whatever, because that's when you need it most. Sending you lots of love,

Marie