sunrise, this guy obviously has lots of unresolved issues himself... I found myself laughing in disbelief at the un thought through crap his wrote....he shows a severe inability to be there for the client and is afraid of emeshment himself...Just take it with a pinch of salt...I have...oh god I've sucked T dry or so my fantasy have feed my monstrous needs would...but in reality t has pointed out over and over again...my needs are not monstrous and she is resilient enough to withstand them....obviously the quack who wrote the above hasn't ever experienced what therapy really is all about...