Two things stand out at me here, the comments you made how you tend to scare guys away and your cooment that you seem to attract guys who don't have it all figured out. Some here think it correct to blame the guy for 100% of every relationship that doesn't work out, it simply couldn't be me. I think from your post that your're smarter than that. Why do you scare guys off? Just because you seem to "attract" a certain type of guy, does that mean you have to date or sleep with him? No. So that leaves the question why are you chosing the guys you do? It's more popular here to simply agree with the poster than provide insight that may help you make better decisions for yourself. I would concentrate more on your actions than trying to figure out his. In any event, I do hope things get better for you. Post updates to your situation.