I agree with TheByzantine's question

"If men do not make a lot of sense, why do women spend so much time pursuing them? "

The answer would appear to be that so they have someone to blame for everything in their life that is not right. Any guy will do, in fact the bigger loser they chose, the better they feel, even after the breakup that everyone see's coming, as they'll milk the attention with the "can you believe he did this to me".