Thank you all for your replies and for not lashing out at me

I am just trying to understand and not be offensive-- thank you for realizing that.

I think it's sad how women are "instructed" by the culture to have to take so much time with their bodies(hair removal practically everywhere but their head! and must wear makeup, and nicely fixed hair and nice fitting clothes, surgically add this, surgically take that way) and so much awareness in order to be "accepted" by whatever the culture deems worthy as a woman.
Men don't have to spend half as much time on looking "right" for women. I don't think that's fair.
and men are so so much more accepted for how they are naturally-- the "god" given stuff-- than women are. Why is- what we are naturally genetically given NOT good enough? it is for men......
why do we have to work so damn hard to be fake??
to be a being that is not natural?
why can't being natural be accepted for women too?

and I still cant' understand for the life of me how a woman can not feel like a little girl if she is bald down there..... it just creeps me out.
if i was bald there and had sex I'd be constantly wondering why this man with me is not appalled by this-- doesn't he feel he is with a child?
I seem to not be able to get past that idea......

I think I better not read about being hairless down there anymore truly feel sick to my stomach........ ugh.....

thank you again for sharing all your views and thoughts, I so appreciate them all.

best to everyone,

fins