I've had to talk to people about stepping on my boundaries. it helps to be firm about where they have crossed the boundaries and firm about telling them that it is NOT okay for them to do that. you have a right to your boundaries and your space. it was not right of your friend to cross them and it is okay to let her know it. i hope this went okay for you and that you were able to preserve the friendship but maintain your rights to your boundaries.

take care,
shadow