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I'm with Belle here. I've said it a million times, boyfriends/girlfriends even husbands and wives come and go. Family is there forever. You said it yourself that he's only known you a few months. What kind of a person would ignore their loved ones for a virtual stranger? There's got to be a balance, pitting yourself me vs. them is a big mistake. Should things work out for you and he I would think that you would find it comforting that he will be as loyal and loving to you once you become his family.
I don't think there is anything wrong with expressing the fact you miss him when you are not together or that you wish that you had more time to spend together.
The comment that you are depressed, even suicidal because you are so lonely without him is alarming. You must be the source of your own happiness, depending on another person to make you happy is TROUBLE waiting to happen.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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