Well I'm glad that she has you. I know having my boyfriend around helps, even if he doesn't understand.

Yes I would say she does need counseling. Not all therapists are understanding. It is hard to find one that fits with you and you fit with them. If that makes sense. If she truly isn't feeling safe right now and you think she is a danger to herself or anyone else you should take her into the ER. Other wise, just try being there for her. For me it helps if someone is there to help distract me. Just get my mind off of what is going on. Play a game, watch TV, do a puzzle together, something/anything.

Good luck. I hope that helps