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Originally Posted by PleaseHelp
I'm not sure what to say. I'm sort of in the same boat. We have been together 3 years and living together for 2 1/2 years. He's in no hurry to get married (again). I have never been married and would like to be. I know is first marriage wasn't that great, but I feel like I'm being compared to her. I don't think he does. To add to it he has twin daughters from his first marriage. (Whom I LOVE and they call me mom) Who really want us to get married. Its complicated.
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Those who have never been married should try to understand the damage that marriage can do to others. Please understand that in some instances it ruins the spirit and breaks the heart. And just being in love with someone new doesn't heal the damage. It's not that you are being compared to anyone, it is that he just doesn't want to be married. When and if he does he will ask you to marry him