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Originally Posted by Jewels
it certainly "sounds like" you may have dissociated. First of all, take a breath. Slow down deliberately and then look at the times of your posts to others during the time you may have dissociated to get some semblance of a time line. I am sorry that you are having such difficulty right now, and I am sure that given the circumstances I would be mighty scared myself about it. I hope you can find some rest for your soul for now, at least. I hope that you are able to slow down and find out what really happened during that time. I know it is a scary thing to dissociate, and sometimes all we can rely on is what our SO tells us about the events that happened.
Be gentle with yourself.
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Thankyou Jewels,
I have grounded and I have followed some of the posts back and I am aware of where and when it happened. I appreciate your advice and I thank you for it. I at least feel safe because DJ has told me that I have been doing this for a number of years now, at least 3. He is so loving and gentle with me so I must feel safe over all, though Megan does attack him at night time when I'm "asleep" and I don't remember any of it. We are going to buy a bofy pillow to put between us so that he is not attacked.
Thanks again,