Hey Feary,

Divorce is always hard and especially when there are children involved, I hear you crying out from a very lonely and desolate place and I see the many voices answering you on this forum. Embrace the positive energy which is being sent to you by us all and know that happiness can be within your reach. One saying which might help is "First love yourself so that others know that they may too."

The moment you begin to use affirmations such as those which Gus suggested, the easier it will become for you to begin to love yourself once again and in the process the easier it will be for you to see the love which others are offering to you unconditionally.

You are a deeply emotional person and this is a good thing, now try to start using these emotions to assist instead of obstruct you. We are all here for you and pray that you will find that immense strength which you have within you to see the light in your life and strive towards it.

All my strength and prayers are with you! Blessed Be!