I am not being selfish and I take great offense to that remark. Jeez, I come here for support and what I get back is an insult. Thanks. Why even have a signifigant other if you're just gonna run to your family all the time?? Makes no sense to me. I think that he's acting like a child and needs to become less dependent on his family and grow up. Either that or his family has him whipped and he can't say no to them. I don't need that in my life. I refuse to compete with anyone for my bf's attention.

My ex bf only proved that he did not need me in his life so I removed him from mine. I am not happy that it had to end like this. In fact, I cried myself to sleep last night and now I don't feel like I can eat or sleep or focus on anything. In the beginning, I was the most important thing in his life and he did spend less time with his family than me. He shouldn't have acted that way if he didn't intend on keeping it up. He broke my heart and made me feel so sad and alone. If I'm gonna feel that sad and alone, I might as well not be in a relationship. No wonder so many people stay in relationships unhappy. Well, I am not that person anymore and I won't be unhappy in another relationship. If it means being alone forever and not finding anyone else then so be it. I no longer care.