Venting is good....

I could relate to many things in your post, especially about not being around others and starting to socialize again and keeping boundaries with men. There does seem to be a set of skills that get out of practice using but moment by moment and with deep breaths, they come back, especially with being around more people. It sounds like it could be an enjoyable visit too and you know it's possible to separate at any time of things don't go the way you're comfortable with. He seems open and respectful of your wishes which is an excellent sign, even as a friend and a good friend at that. I appreciate how honest you are in discussing what is going on with you and will help you move forward in your relationships, be it friends or more with whomever, so they are true. I understand your fears but know if, for myself too, if don't try to make connections there won't be any. What is that, feel the fear and do it anyway? I don't mind on one hand being by myself but I do like being with others too at times. Loneliness can be biting sometimes.

Try to enjoy the visit with the boundaries you need and I will be sending good wishes your way for a lovely visit and weekend. Keep us posted as the week goes on though and how it goes.