I believe the purpose of dreams is to help balance us in our waking life.

Were your dreams mine, I'd wonder about having two men in my life in the way you do; my husband is my best friend. It may be you are telling yourself that having two men, one for husband and one for best friend isn't going to work. Or, maybe you are marrying the "wrong" man or, I don't know what; it's your dream so your images and messages to yourself.