So, his family wasn't really the only reason for our break up. There were other things under the surface that I have overlooked I guess, but it doesn't stop me from hurting one bit. I didn't really want to break up with him, no. I felt that I had to because he really hurt me and him spending time with his sister was not the real issue. The thing that upset me is he was willing to blow me off at the last minute. Had he just communicated to me earlier that he wanted to spend Sunday with his sister then I would have accepted it. Communication problems was the issue, but I communicated more to him than he did to me. He sent me an email today basically telling me that he led me on because he said he wasn't sure if he could make me happy (due to a little disagreement we had like a few weeks ago) which was really only one disagreement and he also said we rushed into things too quickly and moved too fast. He basically said he wasn't ready to commit to a serious relationship or marriage, but at least he admitted he was wrong for telling me that he was. Still, he led me on and my heart is deeply broken. He questioned whether or not we loved each other or whether we just had crazed hormones? That was terribly painful for me to read. Now I feel so terribly alone and I can't bring myself to eat, sleep, or focus on anything, but the pain. Even at work I had to try to fight off the tears so nobody could tell how sad I am. I went in the bathroom and cried a lot. This is the worst I have ever felt in a break up in my life. I really truly believe I was in love with him and yes, I have problems, but I was willing to work on them for him. I just needed more of a chance. I feel like I didn't get that. If he really loved me, then he should be willing to give us another try. We could have even taken a break if he needed it, but no he doesn't feel we should continue.