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Aug 02, 2010, 04:16 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
Posts: 1,797
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Nupoet64,
Like Calista+12, we can only tell you about our exspereances. We hope this will help you not feel so alone and help with what might be hapening to you and those with in.
For us we have been reintergrating for the past 10 years but have been in an abusive sistuation these last few years that is starting to change with the help of good people coming into our lives.
But for us when an alter that is not yet aline with the others come forward we have a big head acke and sometimes feel very dizzy. AT first there is a block out but as we learn safety there is more and more sharing. There are times that I am aware but not able to do anything. Later the alter is alpha but we can communicate and also put our own 2cents in.
It takes longer for this to happen if those within do not feel safe so the joining is based on safety and how those with in work together.
Good Luck, SAfe hugs and thought from all of us to all of you!
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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