Hi Dexter,
I know what you mean. Quite recently I broke off with 2 of my friends from school. Whenever I called with my problems, they kept saying : "Gee, change the subject. It is so repetitive. I am saying that to help you, you know.", "Yea, yea, I am listening. Can't we talk about something more superficial ?"
I don't know what's wrong with your friends. I just know what was wrong with mine. Now I've met 2 other friends from school. When I call them with my repetitive stuff, they say : "Hey, come on, react ! If you want, you can call me later. Let's do something tomorrow and this WE, OK ? No I don't feel annoyed by this story. I am your friend !"
What a difference ! Don't isolate yourself. Keep the contact with the outside world and try to talk again to your friends or write a letter. Find new friends as well. Good luck!
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