I just can't follow your post really.....Louise emailed your girlfriend on FB? how that has happened? Do they know each other? Have you introduced them together? or I'm getting it all wrong!
I know all about those bad thoughts.....my new guy has emailed me today that he might go to colorado this weekend and he wanted to see me even earlier....he even said that he prefers to be with me rather than going for a trip....but then it came to my mind that I just went out with him for couple of dates and there is no relationship nothing, so he can even have some other dates....then I stopped myself right there.....that's a poison thought and I don't need it now.....I can't do anything about it and I don't want to have those thoughts.....It looks like he doesn't like talking on the phone

....what's with guys? I hate technology.....he said he's not on FB....I'm happy about it....and I didn't even courage him to get on facebook....I hate all the stuff is coming with FB.....
anyway....have fun and let us know
Marjan