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Originally Posted by cma62
Hi , Thanks everybody for your insightful advice. I know i need to get more assertive over things that are important to me but i hate to rock the boat as it cayses heck around the house. It's been a 25 year thing and i'm just starting to get tired of it all and starting (or trying to ) rebel. Thanks again 
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If your husband doesn`t ask you = DON`T ASK HIM!!
Do you have a bank account of your own? if not make one! and save some for air conditioner and buy one. Keep at as a secret untill the company comes to install it! THEN he will see that he cannot **** with you! he is not the boss any more!