So if T always says the right things you feel this would be good therapy for you pachy?

The thing is we learn the most from going through the triggers. Surely you have read many threads here where people have talked about 'ruptures' with their T's. It's a necessary part of therapy to go through this stuff.

As I said before you will need to be taught good coping stratergies before going in to the triggery stuff, then (in your view) the T will say the 'wrong' things. Obviously you don't need the T going for the jugular straight away.

I think I have also mentioned to you before a technique T's use called, 'Columbo-ing' which is where the T will purposely 'put their foot in it' in order to get a reaction from you. Patient sits there thinking, 'God, this T is an idiot!' But it is another useful technique to get the patient to figure things out.

Pachy keep talking! You are doing well!