chaotic, so you feel by my T engaging in email she isn't taking care of herself and you feel angry that she does engage, always has and has never remained silent? lol... I think from what I've wrote here over the yrs there is no evidence she hasn't been able to take care of herself, but I do understand reading about what other peoples therapist sdo can lead to discomfort and a need to compare, when really there's no need. I was just intrigued by naming of how I present.. I wasn't doubting T s ability to take care of herself. I won't post her caring reply bEcause It may disturb more. X