well....It never went well for me either....never ever....I've been in dating sites on and off for so many years.....since year 2000....yes....and not even one instance that I say, oh, I like this guy.....I went out for dates, even more than one date with a guy, but no connection and I didn't even feel kissing or holding hands.....
However, I've seen a lot of success stories.....lots....first my sister....she's married around 10 years and have kids....I think she's one of the first ones who tried online dating.....then my best friend, again, she's married now and pregnant....such a great guy she found....then my other guy friend, and another friend and another friend....yes, online dating is getting so popular, but you got to be patient.....
I just had couple of dates with Brandon, but it was all great....and I cherish it....do I get hurt if he doesn't continue? maybe....but that's the life....I have no control on somebody's else emotions and I got to be rational.....so, I just try my best to have this joy in my heart now.....

with love
marjan