Moonrise, a T is a PERSON first. My T is a CSA survivor. He has his own place that is for guys that is like PC. He is there as a survivor and a human - not as a T. And that allows him to do what he NEEDS to do to continue to be a healer and T. If he didn't do that and see his own T - and go to special events for men who are healing - well all that is the only reason he can help me heal. He has shared appropriate level of information with me that relates to what I am going through - and it has made a life-saving difference for me. I KNOW he KNOWS what I am going through and not just feeding me a line of bull. I could not see someone who had not been through their own trauma work because there is no way to get it until you have been there with this level of stuff.

Come here with your stuff as a human and let PC be your support network. You need it. And you deserve it. And just like you tell your clients - don't ever give up on yourself. Healing is something that happens with time and work... and with tons of good support.