unfortunately when you post questions like those I talked about in my last post online in a mental health forum boards where there are thousands of members you are going to get more information than you probably thought you were going to get. you are going to get posts you may not like and you may have pick and choose what fits you and what doesn't. like the poster did when she told me alzheimers wasnt for her. I hadnt read any of her other posts so I was not aware that alzheimers had already been ruled out. would that have changed my post to my not including it, no because my grandmother is part of my life and its the reason why she was having the same problem as the poster. my post was about times in my life when I have encountered the same problem as the poster in some part of my life. it wasnt about trying to diagnose her.

yes its scarey hearing about more information than you want but thats the risk you take in posting here. I learned very quick with my very first post and replys that not everything people post to me is going to be nice, not everything people post to me is going to fit my problem, and I when I post I will get more information than I bargained for.

thats just the way it is when you post in mental health forums. you post you are going to get all kinds of answers.

shoot the messenger never, I understood where you were coming from. I wanted you and others to know where I was coming from too.