There are many things i don;t over money being the the most important to him. We have 4 sons agrd 18 to 25. I have stayed home to raise them but always made sure i made money to help out. I did home day care for 15 years and then started a home organizing business as the hours were flexible and i wanted to be available for my kids if they were sick or had a school trip etc. I did everything for them as my husband didn't get that involved.5 years ago i asked him if i could go back to school to become a veterinary technician, he said there was no money fot that and that i was only thinking of myself what about him and the kids. The brakes (abs ) on my van have been broken for 3 yesrs he keeps patching them up but they break again abd he won't put the money out to take it in to fix them properly, it is so frustrating.