Recent posts and some of my recent sessions have got me wondering about this. What makes a T a good T?

Naturally, I think my T is awesome. Lately, I've been wondering...what if he isn't actually awesome What if he is just mediocre and I don't know it. I've seen lists of questions to ask prospective Ts and things like that. What about a list that helps you know if the T you've been with for awhile really is any good. Maybe that stuff you gloss over and say is just one of those things he does or doesn't do is really a Not-so-good-T habit.

Of course, there will be wide variances due to personal preferences and types of therapy practiced. But, in general, what are some of the things that you think make your T a great T? (And if you don't think your T is great, what are the strikes against T)

I'll think on mine tonight and post tomorrow.