Absolutely, liking our T´s is a prerequisite to change. For me, it’s so obvious that I totally forgot to mention it. But of course, feelings of trust, safety, care, empathy along with a lots of liking or loving is fundamental.

PS: I think it’s good if one can write here as writing a manual. (Those who have made a manual think certain things are so obvious, but we who are trying to understand them sometimes have no clue at all.) And as you can see, English is not my tongue and when I’m in a hurry is just getting even worse.