ok heres the deal. I was hoping to get by without disclosing too much but it ain't happening lol...

our relationship is strained to say the least....we rarely have sex anymore but I catch him masturbating. To him it is not cheating but to me it is. He is cheating me out of a healthy sex life. He thinks if I were to be with another woman that is cheating, but he can pleasure himself. now I would not think that is cheating if he were still taking care of me too. Now let me say this too. I use to be bi..sometimes those old feelings come back but it is a religious thing for me.
Hope that helps decide